By Mike D’Virgilio When an article on the Web gets almost seven thousand comments (yes, seven thousand), you know it’s struck a huge chord. And what topic would elicit such an avalanche of opinion? Why parenting, of course. Amy Chua, a professor at Yale Law School and author, wrote a piece in the Wall Street Journal provocatively titled, “Why Chinese Mothers are Superior.” Them’s fightin’ words to all other mothers out there. How’s this for hardcore parenting: A lot of people wonder how Chinese parents raise such stereotypically successful kids. They wonder what these parents do to produce so many math whizzes and music prodigies, what it’s like inside the family, and whether they could do it too. Well, I can tell them, because I’ve done it. Here are some things my daughters, Sophia and Louisa, were never allowed to do: • attend a sleepover • have a playdate • be in a school play • complain about not being in a school play • watch TV or play computer games • choose their own extracurricular activities • get any grade less than an A • not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama •






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